Sex and the Fat Girl

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #3

Here’s the third installment of the Ask a Fat Girl series! Today we discuss cunnilingus for fat girls, being an “inbetweenie,” lights-on, on-top sex, hourglass figures, fashion rebels, dating people thinner than you and more!... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #2

Hey! Here’s the second edition of Ask a Fat Girl. This time we’re talking about dudes who are in denial about being attracted to fat girls, good positions for two fat people to have sex in, how to deal with unwanted attention from fat fetishists, comparing yourself to skinny friends and... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: The Femme Mystique

I talk a lot about lingerie, perfume, makeup etc. as ways for fat girls to feel sexy/enhance sensual feelings. These are all fine and good ways to do so—but what if your particular groove doesn't mesh with the more “femme” style of sexiness? Not every fat girl feels hot in skimpy... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #1

Here’s my first installment answering your questions for the “Ask a Fat Girl” series. I thought it would be fun to record my answers by audio and include a transcript. Enjoy!... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: She's Got a Great Personality

In real life dating, as in pop culture, fatness is often treated as something a person has to overcome in order to be considered an acceptable romantic partner. The trope of the fat girl with the “great personality” (“great personality” being a common code phrase for “ugly” or “fat”) who... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl

We're trying out a new feature on Sex and the Fat Girl, in which you get to ask me questions about sexuality, body image, etc. and I answer them here, in future posts. So please, let your inhibitions down, get curious, and start asking! Here's the link to the page where you can submit your... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Unicorns, Better Head, and Other Myths

There's a lot of misinformation around the web about sex and fat people. Particularly when it comes to the sexual skills fat people possess. I thought we'd have a little tongue-in-cheek fun by breaking down these myths and getting to the truth of the matter. Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: You've Got to Fight for Your Rights

Reproductive rights for all U.S. women came under attack this month with the introduction of the “No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act” (H.R. 3) by Republican leaders in the House. Once again, a light is shone on the state of women's health in our... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Fat Bottomed Girls

Outside the world of runway models, a degree of fatness is desirable–but only in certain places. We talked about desirable fat body configurations, but what about that gray area dividing thin women from fat known as “voluptuousness... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: If You Want My Body

Sometimes it seems like we’re bombarded by study after study telling us fat girls that unless we fit a certain body type, we’re doomed to be relegated to the “unattractive” bin. If your fat happens to settle into an “hourglass” or “pear” shape, your fat is more likely to be seen as “OK... Read more »

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