I know I'm late to the party on this thread, but I had to throw in another vote for "Charmed." Despite its frequent silliness, it passes the Bechdel test in every episode (I think) and is consistently, extremely feminist. There was an "any excuse to get Alyssa Milano half-naked" phase in there, but that was the only non-feminist factor in a show about complex, realistic relationships between women--women who prioritized their careers, chose to have or not have kids (there was even an episode with serious abortion implications), followed through on their choices to marry or not marry, mother or not mother with strength, didn't see marriage as the be-all, end-all of life (in fact, three of the four main characters rejected marriage proposals or broke off engagements at some point), and more.
I know I'm late to the party on this thread, but I had to throw in another vote for "Charmed." Despite its frequent silliness, it passes the Bechdel test in every episode (I think) and is consistently, extremely feminist. There was an "any excuse to get Alyssa Milano half-naked" phase in there, but that was the only non-feminist factor in a show about complex, realistic relationships between women--women who prioritized their careers, chose to have or not have kids (there was even an episode with serious abortion implications), followed through on their choices to marry or not marry, mother or not mother with strength, didn't see marriage as the be-all, end-all of life (in fact, three of the four main characters rejected marriage proposals or broke off engagements at some point), and more.