From “Sherlock” to “Supernatural,” TV Explores Homoerotic Gray Areas

When Star Trek first appeared onscreen in 1966, it set the model for all sorts of shows to follow—including boldly going into the galaxy of unrequited homoerotic relationships. The devotion of Kirk and Spock, full of longing glances and a sexless intimacy, sparked a whole new genre of queer fanfiction and, to this day, keeps fans rabid for every small moment between the two. These days, TV is full of couples like Kirk and Spock. While these close same-sex relationships can be sweet portraits of loving friendships, they can also cross a line to be queerbaiting—shows create queer subtext but yank it away before getting to actual feelings, actions, or any clear understanding of the relationship.

Compared to film, TV gifts its audience with time to become better acquainted with characters, granting space to explore nuanced, ongoing emotional lives. That allows for complicated explorations of characters’ relationships and desires… when shows have the guts to move beyond a black-and-white will-they-or-won’t-they plotline. A current Kirk-and-Spock dynamic can be found on BBC hit Sherlock, which sets Sherlock Holmes (Benedict Cumberbatch) in modern day London with his partner-in-crime Dr. John Watson (Martin Freeman). The pair share a flat, spend most of their waking hours together, and are each other’s best (and, really, only) friends. The show often riffs on how people think they’re a gay couple—including their landlord, who insinuates that she supports them as a couple while they consider renting the apartment.

“There’s all sorts ‘round here. Mrs. Turner next door’s got married ones,” she tells the pair. Shortly after meeting Dr. Watson, Sherlock’s brother asks, “Since yesterday you’ve moved in with him and now you’re solving crimes together. Are we to expect a happy announcement by the end of the week?” Watson often gets exasperated with telling strangers he’s “not actually gay.” In some shows, misunderstanding the gray area between friends and lovers has been played for laughs (Friends’ Joey and Chandler as well as Psych’s Shawn and Gus come to mind), but there’s not much that’s funny in others’ misconceptions on Sherlock. What seems strange to characters on the show, it seems, is that men would share a flat, be the best of friends, and not be gay. People who assume Watson and Sherlock are gay resist the idea of an intimate male friendship without “benefits.”

Sherlock plays with perception and expectation, because while John corrects anyone who thinks they’re lovers (expressing concern to being called a “bachelor” in the media, knowing what’s implied), Sherlock is uncharacteristically quiet on the topic—for a man who is always setting everyone straight on every topic discussed in his presence. Whatever Sherlock’s silence means, it flips the script from the anticipated reply to perceived queerness (“I’m not gay! Not that there’s anything wrong with that!”) presenting a more complicated image for the audience to have to deal with. Current TNT police show Rizzoli and Isles plays up a similar relationship with female leads detective Jane Rizzoli (Angie Harmon) and medical examiner Maura Isles (Sasha Alexander). There’s the brunching, lounging in bed and talking, and pretending to be a couple to avoid unwanted male attention. Website After Ellen even made a list of the show’s “Top 10 Gayzzoliest Moments.”

Actress Angie Harmon acknowledged in TV Guide, “Sometimes we’ll do a take for that demo. I’ll brush by [Maura’s] blouse or maybe linger for a moment. As long as we’re not being accused of being homophobic, which is not in any way true and completely infuriating, I’m OK with it.” Despite the underlying weirdness of referring to a specific “demo,” which I’ll venture to mean the demographic of queer women and fans of queerness, this highlights a show’s awareness of what their fan base finds titillating, a trend that seems to be on the upswing as social media removes traditional barriers between creators and consumers. No longer are creators in their ivory towers; now they can track fan approval in real time and style their characters accordingly. 

Being responsive to one’s audience is a strange new aspect of our media and it doesn’t come without hiccups. Take for example, Harmon’s statement. She disputes the assertion that playing coy with physical touching and glances, but not anything more, could be considered homophobic. While homophobia doesn’t feel like the right descriptor, one could imagine a show’s discomfort with two women in a confirmed queer relationship. It’s considered safer to have light lesbian allusions to satisfy “that demo” but to not commit to having an actual on-screen, same-sex romance. That’s not homophobia, but that’s not being comfortable with queerness, either. Perhaps the more important point is that one fan’s homophobia is another fan’s homoeroticism; so much of this is open to personal interpretation and what we as viewers bring to TV. 

There is precedent for these queer-ish relationships across media, but there’s also academic standing as well. Adrienne Rich discussed same-sex intimacy in “Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence,” diagraming the “lesbian continuum” as variety of experiences and pleasure that can expand “to embrace many more forms of primary intensity,” fluidity, and the ability for women to move in and out of the continuum. As a viewer, I see the relationships in Star Trek, Sherlock, and Rizzoli and Isles being on a queer continuum that, just like Rich’s proposition, allows for fluidity and an inclusive approach to what it means to be queer. This trope of partners/”partners” is strong enough to support a whole show’s premise based on this blurred line: USA’s 2012 detective show Common Law. The show had only one season, but it was written with all the makings of other homoerotic shows that came before it, in particular a device that forced the good looking male leads Travis and Wes to talk about their feelings during professionally mandated therapy. The show’s tagline was: “It’s like marriage. Only with bullets.”

Common Law, from day one, seemed like a trap meant for those of us who like our partnerships on the queerer side, but I’d argue it doesn’t make it or its characters any less legitimate. In fact, as TV gets more inclusive, with more and more queer characters cropping up, it is exceptional to see the spectrum open wide enough to include same-sex relationships that are open to interpretation: a deep and meaningful friendship between two people, the tip of a steamier romantic iceberg, or something else entirely. I don’t see it as queerbaiting, but as an acknowledgement that same-sex relationships don’t fit into clean straight and gay boxes.

Furthermore, it seems boring and pat to reduce a relationship to its physical parts. Most discussion of these relationships does begins and ends with the question: When are they going to make out, already?! The better question undoubtedly is: Why do all relationships have to end in making out? Returning to Rich, she defines the erotic as “omnipresent in ‘the sharing of joy, whether physical, emotional, psychic.’” Having variability in relationships, especially those between men that include affection and love, helps to liberate the trappings of masculinity—and that liberates us all a little more. 

Science fiction seems to loosen boundaries in all manner of places, especially as it applies to relationships. The current incarnation of Teen Wolf, for example, seems well-aware of itself as a vehicle for homoeroticism but never writes queerness into its story line outright. Derek Hale (Tyler Hoechlin) and comedy sidekick Stiles (Dylan O’Brien) banter constantly, push each other up against walls, and save each other’s lives, all the while maintaining sporadic relationships with women, bringing up yet another trope of homoerotic relationships: the significant other, always of the opposite sex, who momentarily distracts one of the pair from the other. This tends to last an episode, but even when it stretches beyond that, the side character strictly in the background is never a threat to the strength or longevity of the same-sex pairing. 

For yet another example, look at demon-hunting CW show Supernatural, which is now in its ninth season. The show is essentially The X-Files but with brothers Sam and Dean Winchester (Jared Padalecki and Jensen Ackles), who have Mulder-and-Scully levels of sexual tension coursing through their relationship. Fans of the pairing refer to it as “Wincest” and are firm in their beliefs that these brothers want to tear into each other. Former showrunner Sera Gamble calls Supernatural the “epic love story of Sam and Dean.” The relationship, of course, has spurred a world of “Wincest” fan art: 

Sam and Dean caress each other

Sam and Dean wallpaper via FanPop.

Sam and Dean lie naked in bed together

An imagined morning-after scene by Nemo via the Supernatural wiki.

There’s other same-sex tension on the show: a deep, abiding love between Dean and dour-yet-smoldering-hot angel Castiel (Misha Collins). When Castiel showed up in the show’s fourth season, he and Dean immediately sparked chemistry on screen and for fans, with the camera lingering on their soulful glances and salacious banter (“Cas, not for nothing, but the last time someone looked at me like that…I got laid”).  At a fan convention, Supernatural’s Misha Collins talked about his character Castiel’s relationship with Dean. “We know what it is, what’s going on. We don’t talk about it,” he said. “But we’re all perfectly aware of how the relationship is, the writers are completely aware of how it’s being written. It may be unspoken but that doesn’t mean it’s not there or not true.” What Collins said can be applied to any relationship, straight or queer. Perhaps we’ll have to live without knowing all the answers, and settle on enjoying a lingering glance, a flirty retort, an embrace that is full of meaning.

Eyefucking aside, there is a persisting question: is it enough for fans to have these gray area characters and relationships but to never see them evolve? We come to media with our own experiences and view of the world: some of us want to see boys making out, some want stories of commitment with everyone’s hands in PG places. What would be a shame, from a writing perspective, is if a show held itself back from advancing a true same-sex romance. After all, in real life, women fall in love with women and men with men, sometimes after a life of assumed, rigid heterosexuality. It happens all the time and it should happen more often on TV, too. At the same time, friendship can be as big or bigger than a physical, romantic relationship, and two people may keep their relationship in the same zone for years. This, too, can be real and honest as long as it doesn’t come from a place of fear or anxiety for writers. Writing that addresses the full spectrum of our humanity could be considered risky, but it is worth it for fans and for the medium that impacts how we live our lives.

by Emily Hashimoto
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Emily Hashimoto's debut novel A World Between follows two queer women of color over the course of thirteen years as they grow away from and towards each other. Her personal essays have appeared in Out, Electric Literature, Catapult, Literary Hub, and The Rumpus, centering intersectional narratives. 

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I agree about the emotional

I agree about the emotional aspect of it. Actually, even now, although I don't follow this stuff anymore, the sexual part didn't appeal to me unless it was really rough (thus still catering to an emotional release).

Another phrase for these type

Another phrase for these type of relationships could be 'queer baiting'.

A more relevant question is

A more relevant question is why these gray areas are exclusively same sex pairs. Personally I cannot wrap my head around why this is can be called subversive by any stretch of the imagination. We need to defend friendship, do we? The Sherlock Holmes series - one of the most iconic representations of same sex friendship, right along every other cop show ever, and that has never even had a mainstream adaption with the titular character in a same sex romance - needs to defend the homosocial friendship?

If the aim was really to get our minds out of the gutter and show an adult relationship not built on sex, you'd show man and a woman, full stop. That is the relationship that is always assued to be sexual. What happens to same sex relationships is actually the opposite, which everyone knows who've had to watch the denial and surprise as canonically queer characters are outed. If any of these shows were to be realistic about social expectations, They'd have the characters actually be a couple and get constantly be mistaken for friends, because that's what actually happens in real life.

This IS an expression of homophobia, there should be no doubt about it, but coated with a thin varnish of revolution, just like when queers had to be locked out of marriage so that the straight people could challenge the nuclear family. But that is less disturbing than the fact that we're buying it.

Thank you for reading, and

Thank you for reading, and for such a thoughtful reply. In my first draft of this piece, I discussed man-woman relationships on television that never blossomed into the physical realm, Benson/Stabler on SVU being chief among them, though there are a few other examples out there.

I too am interested in why these grey area pairings are mostly same-sex, when we know that women and men in friendships occupy this space, too. (Furthermore, those who identify as trans, intersex, or don't identify at all - all these people have complicated friendships, too!) Embedded into what seems like every single friendship between men and women is the expectation that they'll get into bed. Why is that? Why are we so singularly minded? Weeeeeeird.

What is different about this new crop of same-sex relationships is that they are not assumed to be in a friendzone. It seems that we're extending our understanding of relationships as being sexual, now or eventually, to every friendship including those of the same sex. It's almost an indictment: you should be dating and physical; why aren't you?! At the very least our sex-obsessed culture is extending the branch of parity. But you're absolutely right: what's more common in real life, which happens to me and my wife ALL THE TIME, is that people assume we are sisters (dark hair, black plastic glasses frames, but otherwise are Persian-Polish and Japanese-German? Sisters not so much).

Where I believe we part in thinking is to call this homophobic. As a queer woman I am wary of putting myself into the shoes of creators/writers/producers, who live in the same world as I do and many of whom are queer themselves, and dismissing their intentions as homophobic. I will say that this grey area leaves much to be interpreted, which is on the one hand great, but also leaves much to be interpreted which is problematic for those of us watching. What exactly are we seeing?

Thank you again for writing/reading, and sorry that I have rambled on so :)

"Teen Wolf (...) never writes

<blockquote>"<i>Teen Wolf</i> (...) never writes queerness into its story line outright."</blockquote>

Um... there are two openly gay characters in <i>Teen Wolf</i>, actually? There's Danny Mahealani (played by Keahu Kahuanui), who is also not white and so you could argue this nicely breaks the stereotype of Hawaiian/POC men as excessively manly and aggressively heterosexual (like one Jason Momoa in <i>Game of Thrones</i>). There is also one of the werewolves, Ethan (played by Charlie Carver). Both of these characters are more than their sexuality and are getting interesting and more involved story lines as the show goes on. There is also an episode with two lesbian girlfriends, but one of them gets killed off after being on screen for less than five minutes. So... yes, <i>Teen Wolf</i> DOES outright write queerness into its story line. Although I am all for the queer-until-proven-straight rule and Derek and Stiles' antics amuse me, it irks me very much to see actual, canonically queer characters shafted in favour of these two.

This is a great point, and I

This is a great point, and I think I meant to add 'between Stiles and Derek.' The queerness in actual, out characters is really interesting and I would love to see more of it on TW and elsewhere.

Big Bang theory

I kept waiting for some discussion or at least a reference to Rodge Kutripoli "now you see it now you don't" relationship on the wildly popular Big Bang.... Maybe this is just the end to set in stone gender performance as we have known it.

Physical Beauty

Lovely article! I am wondering how much do you think physical beauty plays into the audience's expectation of TV show friends eventually getting together? With Mulder and Scully (speaking as a gay guy), I really just wanted to see them "take the next step" because they were both physically AND intellectually right for each other. TV does tend to not cast more pedestrian-looking actors. Do you think the same expectations would be placed on a lead duo where one was beautiful (stereotypically) and the other not so much? Also, how do you feel about the general lack of expectation of Will and Jack ever getting together? While W&G was far from portraying gay reality, I think it was very important to portray a gay friendship (albeit rather shallow and sorted) on a sitcom.

Precisely what I was going to

Precisely what I was going to say about Danny! And Stiles doesn't really have romantic relationships with women--he has a long-term crush on Lydia, gets propositioned by a childhood friend (who then disappears), and Lydia kisses him once, but that's it. I love how open he is about the possibility of being not-straight, and I love how the high school culture has practically no homophobia issues. If werewolves can exist, surely a high school without homophobic can, too.

re: sherlock

most productions of sherlock holmes (especially the one with jeremy brett, who was gay) are homoerotic. i guess i don't see the need for explaining this part of the story. i don't see it as homophobic to leave this part of the story sort of dangling out there. yes, i think the current incarnation of sherlock does a less-than-stellar job of letting john be okay with his sexuality or curiosity. but in terms of the traditional holmes/watson story, watson is perpetually both fascinated and confused by sherlock's actions and the life he lives, as an addict (something no one acknowledges) especially.

anyway, just my two cents.

Isn't the line 'our deep

Isn't the line 'our deep abiding love' actually something Dean said to Sam, aka it's more Wincest than Destiel? Season 8 episode 1, when Dean came home from purgatory.

I should preface my

I should preface my question/statement with the fact that I'm a straight middle aged black woman. I don't fully understand the controversy of gay-baiting in TV shows. Let's take Sherlock for example. I think Sherlock's sexuality has been written to be fluid and that perhaps he has unrequited love for John. Is it possible for characters to be written with an undefined sexuality or same-sex relationships on the sexuality continuum with it not being considered queer baiting? I'm completely okay if Sherlock or Supernatural ends without the big "payoff." Of course, I'm thinking about this from a heterosexual POV.

Not necessarily...

With regards to Sherlock - the character, that is - I always felt that he was never defined sexually, which is one of the reasons I love him. Why can't Sherlock just be sexually 'meh'? Like the Doctor on Doctor Who, he is intellectually focussed (almost exclusively) and orientation never really occurs to him and love is love - friends love each other and, wishful thinking aside, doesn't have to be physical love. I have a girl-friend that I would do anything for - she's straight and so am I, there's no sexual love there, and yet we're always being pulled out as a couple, which I don't mind as it shows that our affections are clear.

Then again, angst/UST is fun and sells shows, so...

My thoughts on queer baiting

Personally, I don't mind a bit of queer baiting so long as show creators don't mind when fans (of whatever sexuality) take that bait and run with it. The vast majority of media (and even non-media) tends to get used in all sorts of stories because the number one rule of fanfiction seems to be anything goes. ;)

My thoughts on queer baiting

Personally, I don't mind a bit of queer baiting so long as show creators don't mind when fans (of whatever sexuality) take that bait and run with it. The vast majority of media (and even non-media) tends to get used in all sorts of stories because the number one rule of fanfiction seems to be anything goes. ;)

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