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Ask Bear: Should I Tell My Friends and Family I'm Poly?
Good for you that you were able to recognize love when it came along.
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Ask Bear: How Do I Get My Sexist Boss to Apologize?
How do you tell someone HOW to apologize for screwing up?
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Ask Bear: My Boyfriend Hates Leaving the House
He likes to stay in. I like to go out. Will we just make eachother unhappy forever?
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Ask Bear: I Think My Friend Is in a Downward Spiral. How Do I Help Her?
“Make lots of time and space for conversation to happen.”
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Ask Bear: I Know My Boyfriend is Abusive. Why Can't I Leave?
That’s his game. To assert his power. To gain control.
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Ask Bear: I Don't Drink. Should I Start?
A reader wonders if they’re missing out—but worries about spiraling into addiction.
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Ask Bear: Oh No! I'm Losing Interest in My Partner
“Does that mean I’m broken?” A reader asks for advice.
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Ask Bear: I'm a Queer Femme Woman—Can I Call Myself "Papa"?
A queer parenting conundrum.
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Ask Bear: After Orlando, I'm Scared to Take My Child to Pride
“Your support is needed. Especially this year.”
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Ask Bear: I Wanted to Join the Peace Corps, But then I Fell In Love
Should you follow your life-long dream? Or stick around for a budding romance?
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