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On Our Radar

Phew! This week saw lots of compelling internet content, including the following: Queerty... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Personal Style as Political Resistance

In a previous post about beauty standards/ideals, I suggested that fat women loving their bodies and viewing themselves as beautiful subverts the dominant beauty paradigm. One method of expressing your love for your body... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #4

This is the last edition of Ask a Fat Girl for a while. Today we talk about classes on sizeism, first time sex, “compliments” on weight loss, what I do when I’m feeling down on myself, and more!... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: The Beauty Industrial Complex and You

If fat is a feminist issue, why don’t we challenge the dominant view that beauty is a viable concept instead of just accepting that unilateral standards of beauty exist and trying to shoehorn fat women into the “beautiful” category? Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #3

Here’s the third installment of the Ask a Fat Girl series! Today we discuss cunnilingus for fat girls, being an “inbetweenie,” lights-on, on-top sex, hourglass figures, fashion rebels, dating people thinner than you and more!... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #2

Hey! Here’s the second edition of Ask a Fat Girl. This time we’re talking about dudes who are in denial about being attracted to fat girls, good positions for two fat people to have sex in, how to deal with unwanted attention from fat fetishists, comparing yourself to skinny friends and... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: The Femme Mystique

I talk a lot about lingerie, perfume, makeup etc. as ways for fat girls to feel sexy/enhance sensual feelings. These are all fine and good ways to do so—but what if your particular groove doesn't mesh with the more “femme” style of sexiness? Not every fat girl feels hot in skimpy... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl #1

Here’s my first installment answering your questions for the “Ask a Fat Girl” series. I thought it would be fun to record my answers by audio and include a transcript. Enjoy!... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: She's Got a Great Personality

In real life dating, as in pop culture, fatness is often treated as something a person has to overcome in order to be considered an acceptable romantic partner. The trope of the fat girl with the “great personality” (“great personality” being a common code phrase for “ugly” or “fat”) who... Read more »

Sex and the Fat Girl: Ask a Fat Girl

We're trying out a new feature on Sex and the Fat Girl, in which you get to ask me questions about sexuality, body image, etc. and I answer them here, in future posts. So please, let your inhibitions down, get curious, and start asking! Here's the link to the page where you can submit your... Read more »

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