The Pleasure Dome
The Pleasure Dome: You Can Say Yes to Pornography and Accountability
Ideally, porn is a spark for, and an extension of, a vibrant sexual imagination.
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Liberating Desire: It's Time to Shift Your Fantasies
Our liberation and fantasies are intricately connected.
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Strategic Celibacy: Liberating Your Desire, Part 1
A key aspect of succeeding in the work of #metoo and smashing the patriarchy will be examining not just true rape culture, but our culture of desire.
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I Want You, But I'm Triggered: Finding Pleasure When Trauma and Memory Collide
Triggers happen. Here’s what to do when trauma threatens to disrupt your pleasure.
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It’s Time to Reclaim Our Skin: How Getting Naked Restores Our Dignity
This is your living body; this is what aliveness feels like.
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It’s Bloody Fantastic: Find a Lover Who Loves Period Sex
I learned in my early 20s that anything less than Team Bloody Awesome is a red flag.
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Taste It: Oral Sex Starts with Words
In the best case scenario, both parties can bring their attention fully to the cock/pussy/other at hand. Or, more precisely, at mouth.
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Feel Me Up: The Incomparable Intimacy of Second Base
Stay here. Because second base is when the intensity of the kissing and desire gets to spread to the entire body.
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It's About Your Game: Flirting to Find Your Authentic Self
A lot of us don’t know how to articulate what we really want.
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From #MeToo to #WeConsented: Reclaiming the Pleasure of Consent
Consent that is shored up by the real option of a strong no, by respected and well worn boundaries, and by a visceral yes that floods the entire body, is a pre-orgasmic experience.
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