Relationships

Ask Bear: I Wanted to Join the Peace Corps, But then I Fell In Love

Should you follow your life-long dream? Or stick around for a budding romance? Read more »

The Questioning Continuum: Seeking Sexuality as a Lifelong Process

While the Q of “Queer” is rightfully gaining more traction, the Q of “Questioning” doesn’t get a lot of love in a culture that demands definition.   Read more »

Ask Bear: What If My Relationship Has An Expiration Date?

A couple gets along great, but one of them is planning to move thousands of miles away. What do you do? Read more »

Web Series "Anarkali" Centers on Brown Love, Heartbreak, and Friendship

“We've never seen what it's like for brown girls to date in the diaspora.” Read more »

Ask Bear: My Friends Say I Can't Take a Joke

A reader wonders if they're humorless and “too sensitive” and should try to lighten up.  Read more »

Ask Bear: How Do I Talk to My Partner About Nonmonogamy?

No wonder you're anxious to bring up the topic—our culture tells us relationships only work one way.  Read more »

An HBO Sci-Fi Show About the Rapture Helped Me Heal from Divorce

In “The Leftovers,” millions of people suddenly depart Earth. The show about loss and guilt hits close to home. In August, I left my husband, my income, one of my cats, and my belief in everlasting love. The transition was anything but smooth.  Read more »

Popaganda: Self-Care

Hardcore activists still need to sleep enough, eat enough, and stretch every once in a while. On this episode, we explore the gender and race dynamics of taking care of our minds and bodies and share self-care tips. Featuring Evette Dionne on why self-care is a radical act and writer... Read more »

Ask Bear: How Can I Forgive Someone for Dumping Me?

Being dumped sucks. But here's the good news: You’re not on his timeline anymore. Read more »

Ask Bear: My Friend Is Getting Married to Someone Awful. What Can I Do?

Our advice columnist weighs a tricky question: how to support a friend who's in a bad relationship.  Read more »

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