Strategic Celibacy: Liberating Your Desire, Part 1
A key aspect of succeeding in the work of #metoo and smashing the patriarchy will be examining not just true rape culture, but our culture of desire.
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I Want You, But I'm Triggered: Finding Pleasure When Trauma and Memory Collide
Triggers happen. Here’s what to do when trauma threatens to disrupt your pleasure.
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Neither Slave Nor Pharaoh: Finding the Divine in BSDM
To be Muslim is to be one who submits.
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It’s Bloody Fantastic: Find a Lover Who Loves Period Sex
I learned in my early 20s that anything less than Team Bloody Awesome is a red flag.
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The Price of Ownership: “The Girlfriend Experience” Treats Sex Workers With Respect
The Girlfriend Experience audaciously centers sex workers.
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Taste It: Oral Sex Starts with Words
In the best case scenario, both parties can bring their attention fully to the cock/pussy/other at hand. Or, more precisely, at mouth.
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Superficial Boundaries: “She’s Gotta Have It” Butchers Polyamory and Queerness
Nola Darling erects superficial barriers that don’t protect her or the people she’s engaging with.
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Ask the Sexpert: Can a Gynecologist’s Advice Column Change Indian Culture?
Obscenity, like beauty, lies in the eye of the beholder
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Feel Me Up: The Incomparable Intimacy of Second Base
Stay here. Because second base is when the intensity of the kissing and desire gets to spread to the entire body.
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Friday's Children: Revisiting—and Rethinking—the Sex-Positive 1970s
Nancy Friday’s bestselling collection of women’s erotic fantasies contradicted the staunch conviction that women lacked the rich sexual fantasy lives enjoyed by men.
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