sex
Doing It Like Men: Did “Sex and the City” Really Revolutionize Sex On TV?
Having sex and liking it was the one thing that Carrie, Charlotte, Samantha, and Miranda had in common.
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Raw, Real, and Uncut: Cupcakke is Rap’s Sex-Positive Superstar
It’s possible to be Christian, sexually freaky, emotionally intelligent, moody, and political at the same time.
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Douchebag Decree: Ross Douthat Thinks Violent Incel Ideology Makes Sense
Of course this week’s Douchebag Decree is going to Ross Douthat.
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The Pleasure Dome: Use Your Words
Practice, practice, practice liberating the language of your desire.
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The Pleasure Dome: You Can Say Yes to Pornography and Accountability
Ideally, porn is a spark for, and an extension of, a vibrant sexual imagination.
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Liberating Desire: It's Time to Shift Your Fantasies
Our liberation and fantasies are intricately connected.
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Ask Auntie Randa: How Can I Recharge After a Sexless Relationship?
Randa Jarrar’s advice on Arab community-building and starting a pussy journal.
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Strategic Celibacy: Liberating Your Desire, Part 1
A key aspect of succeeding in the work of #metoo and smashing the patriarchy will be examining not just true rape culture, but our culture of desire.
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I Want You, But I'm Triggered: Finding Pleasure When Trauma and Memory Collide
Triggers happen. Here’s what to do when trauma threatens to disrupt your pleasure.
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Neither Slave Nor Pharaoh: Finding the Divine in BSDM
To be Muslim is to be one who submits.
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